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    Never Say Never: The Story of My Gray Walls

    By Stacy 40 Comments

    When gray walls started to become a popular in the decorating world I resisted. I thought gray was cold. I thought it was lifeless. I thought it was boring. I even went as far as to say "I will NEVER paint my walls gray!" You see, I love color and I didn't think of gray as a color. I considered it the opposite of color.

    Fast forward to a few months ago as I was starting my basement bathroom. I knew eventually it would function as the bathroom for our future bedroom suite. I also knew I had NO idea what color scheme I wanted that future bedroom to be. Who knows when I will begin (let alone complete) finishing our basement into the said bedroom. I will have probably decided on and changed my mind 5 times before that happens. What I did know was that both the bedroom and bathroom would have white wood planked walls. And the bathroom would have marble tile. I stewed and stewed about what color to paint the walls. White was not an option, cause remember... I LURVE color :)

    I finally broke down one day and while I was at Home Depot I picked out some gray paint chips to bring home. You know, just to see....

    And then I taped them to the walls.

    And then I kind of fell in love with one.

    I had been looking at it all wrong. Gray can be the perfect backdrop. The perfect neutral that you then add color to. Gray didn't have to be THE color. I could add whatever colors I wanted. And if I decided I wanted a different color scheme once the bedroom part is done, I can change it out without painting again.

    Plus, the gray would look down right sexy with my marble tile.

    So I painted my walls GRAY!!!

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    Sorry for the horrible picture. I took it with my timer and apparently I stink at that.

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    I have written a review about the regular sized PaintStick in the past and I love it. However, the basement bathroom has very short ceilings. The basement ceilings are just over 7 feet, but in the bathroom, the previous owners furred out the ceiling to hide pipes. So it is even lower. Plus the bathroom is the size of a postage stamp. The regular Paint Stick would have been too long.

    I decided to use my PaintStick Mini for the first time. The thought of stepping in a pan of gray paint and getting it on my marble tile that I SLAVED over installing made me sick. If you have ever painted a tight space you know the chances of stepping in or knocking over a paint tray goes up 127%.

    The PaintStick Mini was perfection.

    PaintStick Mini

    (Image source: HomeRight)

    grey-paint

    This is before I caulked, added the sink & toilet, and put up shelves in the "linen closet" space. So don't judge... but you can see it against the white. Isn't it so soft!

    I picked the paint color Driftwood Gray by Martha Stewart and had it mixed in Behr Ultra. I also had them mix it at 75% so it would be a little lighter. Did you know they could do that? If you find the color you love but it is too dark, you can ask them to mix it at 25%, 50%, or 75%. It is awesome!

    This was my first time picking out and painting with gray.  I knew from other people that gray was a tricky color. I personally think that gray and yellow are the two hardest colors to choose the right shade.

    When choosing a gray color it is vital to understand the different undertones it has.

    There are grays that have virtually no undertones. I like to call them stone grays because, well, I just do. Then there are grays that have a warm undertone. They will either have a red/pink undertone or a brown undertone. Some grays are cool. They have a blue or a green undertone. Here are some examples:

    undertones in gray paint

    There is no way for me to sit and tell you THIS is the perfect gray or THAT one is perfect because there are so many factors. Lighting is a BIG one. It will depend on how much natural light you have and what type of light bulbs you use. It will also depend on the other colors in your home, the fabrics or upholstery, and the wood tones.

    I would NEVER pick a paint chip and then buy a gallon of it. Even if I had taped the paint chips on the wall and tested them in different lights. Because paint will ALWAYS look a little different when painted on a large area. Please do yourself and your wallet a favor and buy the small $3 sample cans of your top 2 or 3 choices. Paint a large section of your wall and live with it for a couple of days. Then after that you can buy your gallons.

    Have you ever painted a wall gray? Did you find it tricky? What are your favorite grays???

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    1. maureen

      November 21, 2013 at 5:22 am

      thank you, I'm so afraid of color, I know it's easy to change, but this helps in picking color

      Reply
    2. Suesan

      November 21, 2013 at 6:33 am

      I have said the exact same thing about grey and now find myself eating my words. I also think green is very hard to match. I once rented a house with apple green counter tops, pistachio green walls, forest green window seat cover, teal green carpet and kelly green floors. It was horrid. I affectionately (without much actual affection) called it The War of The Greens kitchen. I'm not sure which green won.

      Reply
    3. Khadija

      November 21, 2013 at 8:53 am

      LOL! I used to hate grey too!

      Reply
    4. Marie

      November 21, 2013 at 9:51 am

      I too am painting a gray. Started with the color cards at Home Depot. Then purchased a couple of samples. One had a green undertone which I did not care for. I chose the other sample because I had painted three walls an average of 12" x 24" and after a couple of days
      decided this was it. Lo and behold I purchased 2 gallons and when I painted a small wall it looked like some shade of baby blue!!!
      I was horrified. Took paint back and the kind gentleman tried lightening it and that didn't work. So I bought a quart of a much darker gray,came home and found the perfect combo. Half the baby blue and have the darker gray. It was perfect. My advise don't give up!!!

      Reply
    5. Jamie

      November 21, 2013 at 9:52 am

      That's crazy... I have the exact same DIY color in my living room, ha! http://www.creatingreallyawesomefreethings.com/painting-tips/

      Reply
    6. Nat & Holly

      November 21, 2013 at 9:59 am

      I love to hear what grays people love! Thanks for the tips!

      Reply
      • Jackie

        November 22, 2013 at 10:25 am

        Chrisian Grey! LOL!

        Reply
        • Jackie

          November 22, 2013 at 10:26 am

          Christian Grey. Wish I could spell!

          Reply
    7. Kelley

      November 21, 2013 at 9:59 am

      I've gone through SO many different grays - great tips!

      Reply
    8. Cathy

      November 21, 2013 at 10:35 am

      I'm still searching for the perfect gray to go in my kitchen; cabs are honey oak ( and I do not want to paint them white cause then I'd need new counters...) so I need one with more blue in it. I think I'll try the color you chose and see if they can mix a sample. Thanks for a great post.

      Reply
      • Teren Colver

        July 29, 2017 at 7:55 pm

        I have honey oak as well. I just painted my kitchen Agreeable gray by Sherwin Williams.Love, Love, LOVE it!!! It has a slight purple undertone. It also has a warmth to it. I searched high and low for the best color!

        Reply
    9. Ashley @ Simply Designing

      November 21, 2013 at 11:47 am

      I love the color you choose! It is a beautiful gray!

      Reply
    10. Calliope

      November 21, 2013 at 1:06 pm

      I.hated.gray.
      Now? Everything is going gray in my house...and it is the most difficult color to nail!
      I just painted the kitchen walls Light Pewter by BM which is a light gray/beige that I love more and more everyday and my bedroom walls Kendall charcoal also by BM. The bedroom is like a cocoon now and I am decorating with aged gold frames and red persian like rugs
      Gray rocks!

      Reply
      • Sandy

        March 13, 2014 at 2:16 pm

        What color did you paint the ceiling when using Kendall charcoal on your wall?

        Reply
    11. Sarah @ The Dusenberry Daily

      November 21, 2013 at 1:19 pm

      When we purchased our home in February, the entire (When I say entire, I mean every wall and ceiling. EVERY.) house was painted in a flat, gray paint. We are in the process of painting, room by room. While I like gray, I will not be sorry to see it gone, as it has become the bane of my existence. I may leave it in one of the guest bedrooms, though, since the paint is in good shape and that will be one less room to paint. :)

      Reply
    12. funcolors

      November 21, 2013 at 2:06 pm

      http://thelandofcolor.com/bringing-perspective-to-color-undertone/

      Here's another perspective on undertones. There are actually very few grays that are truly neutral. Most all paint colors people label as gray are colors that have been grayed down so far that it's hard to see any indication of the color's hue parent.

      Reply
    13. Dory

      November 21, 2013 at 2:13 pm

      I had a hard time finding the right shade of gray for our house. Every room we painted, we kept trying to find the right shade of gray, and they always ended up blue! Finally, we bought samples, put them on the walls of the future nursery, and found our perfect shade of gray. We talked about it on our blog here: http://doyledispatch.com/2013/08/24/perfect-shade-of-gray/.

      Reply
    14. Amy Anderson

      November 21, 2013 at 4:53 pm

      I LOVE gray! It's my favorite wall color. This is an awesome post and will be helpful for me the next time I paint.

      Reply
    15. Jessica @ Mom 4 Real

      November 21, 2013 at 6:01 pm

      I am absolutely in LOVE with gray right now...thanks for the tips!!!

      Reply
    16. Tania

      November 21, 2013 at 6:39 pm

      Love gray!

      Reply
    17. Melanie

      November 21, 2013 at 7:28 pm

      We had our bathroom painted a medium-gray last year and I love it - it has blue undertones. Not only does black look fantastic with this shade of gray, but so do bright accessories!

      Reply
    18. Melanie

      November 21, 2013 at 7:39 pm

      We painted our bathroom gray last year with white accents. Love it!

      Reply
    19. dani e

      November 21, 2013 at 8:52 pm

      I painted a bedroom a beautiful medim gray with white crown moulding. Everyone thought I was driving the bus to crazy town. It turned out amazing and I get so many compliments! Well chosen color! Thanks for the tip on percentage of color! I will save that tip in my back pocket! Can't wait to see how you finish the room... good luck!

      -d

      Reply
    20. Helen G. Dickerson

      November 22, 2013 at 4:22 am

      Gray is the color that I can't decide what to color to mix. However, when I read your article I think I might try gray and have some experiment. Thanks for sharing.

      Reply
    21. Emily

      November 22, 2013 at 6:49 am

      I too was anti-gray in my mind for quite a while. But it's true, when you have a lot of colorful accents; it works perfectly. I used Benjamin Moore's BUNNY GRAY. I thought it was a true light gray, but once I looked across the room to see what I had painted so far, I realized it had a lavender tone. I LOVE the color and it goes great with everything. It feels cozy but is still light enough for the darkness of the basement! I used it in my office with gold metallic and white accents. In my closet with many colorful accents. And in my bathroom with nature green and wood accents. There is a painting in the hall that is all pastel colors. It looks amazing in each one, and you barely notice it's all one color paint!

      Reply
    22. Lara

      November 22, 2013 at 10:26 am

      I wanted a grey kitchen, and at the time, hubs worked at the blue store (in paint, no less!) and found a reject grey that I loved! Since my kitchen does not get much light, I decided that the reject was too dark and decided to lighten it with a quart of white. Now, depending on the light, it's periwinkle or lavender. But I decided I LOVE it and painted my dining room the same color. Found some fabric at Wally World that matches and installed that into my cabinet door frames. It all works!

      Reply
    23. Sarah

      November 22, 2013 at 4:43 pm

      The best grey I have found is Intellectual Grey by Sherwin Williams. No real undertones that are noticeable, but still in the "warm" grey family. My hair dresser re-did her salon and used this color and her black mirrors popped! So, I gave it a try in my all white kitchen! It makes my cabinetry pop and it goes well with all of the decor in my apartment (open floor plan)! Love it! I love how grey on the walls can make a white accented room look so crisp!

      Reply
    24. Kimber @ The Pinning Mama

      November 22, 2013 at 9:30 pm

      I love gray! Although i like color, I am not as bright as some :) I love how you pointed out that gray can reay change in light and different areas. I just found this out with some tile we put in. Luckily it all worked out in the end!

      Reply
    25. The DIY Homegirl

      November 22, 2013 at 10:29 pm

      I've not painted a wall gray---yet!--- but I LOVE gray. And I never used to either! My favorite so far is Sterling by Behr. It's a very cool light gray, with little, if any, undertones. I've used it on furniture makeovers and in an upcoming kitchen makeover for my mom.

      Look forward to seeing your space with the gray!

      Reply
    26. Lauren @ The Thinking Closet

      November 23, 2013 at 9:44 am

      That's so funny, Stacy - - like you, I felt like gray was a lame-o color - - or rather, LACK of color. After all, we left Ohio to escape the gray days - - why would I ever want to incorporate it into our home. However, I've been won over, too! I have just seen so many rooms with gray accents or gray walls that really look so bright and alive - - the opposite of dull and lethargic. I even want to paint my new roll top desk GRAY! Thanks for sharing your story and for confirming the value of gray as a neutral.

      Reply
    27. Laura Clark

      November 27, 2013 at 8:48 am

      The undertones in gray paint graphic is so helpful. Thank you for trying our new PaintStick Mini product on this project.

      Reply
    28. Kara

      December 11, 2013 at 12:51 pm

      If you are painting an empty house, don't be too freaked out by the undertones! I had my entire town house painted a lovely grey with blue undertone, only to walk in the first time and see a sea of blue. I was sick over it, until I took a piece of our large scale abstract art over to the place. Bam. the walls instantly turned grey again. Moral of the story -- grey in a vacuum will look very much like its undertone -- until you put your things back in the room.

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      • Rachel

        March 18, 2015 at 6:55 am

        I am having this same issue now, I have painted my living room Valspar Gray Plank and it has blue undertones. There is no furniture in the home and it was like walking into a baby blue nursery. I am sick to my stomach about it. I did test the color on the walls but now with it on all walls it appears blue. I am hoping once I put all of my darker furniture and new window coverings back, it will appear gray. Fingers crossed!! Anyone have any suggestions on the best colors to offset baby blue hues in gray paint?

        Reply
    29. Lupe

      April 20, 2014 at 7:18 pm

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      it and personally suggest to my friends. I am confident they'll be benefited from this website.

      Reply
    30. Heather H

      August 26, 2014 at 10:13 pm

      Ugh, I just painted my living room/hallway "graceful gray" (also behr ultra) and I sort of hate it. I was looking for a true gray and it is so much more beige than gray. It kills me. Hubby keeps saying "wait til the furniture is in, you'll love it then!" But if I still don't like it it will never get repainted because the furniture is in.

      Reply
    31. Donna

      October 05, 2014 at 12:42 pm

      I painted freshly sheet rocked walls with Martha Stewarts Bedford Gray. I love it now, but when it first went up...I was not so sure it would work.
      I never put links in comments, but I think you might be interested. You can read about it here:
      http://holimess.blogspot.com/2014/09/bedford-gray.html

      Reply
    32. Margarita

      March 16, 2016 at 8:21 pm

      I am desperate right now...... MY LIVING ROOM IS LIGHT BLUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
      I used ONLINE grey by sherwin williams for all MY home Walls and turn like baby blue, HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!
      What I can do.? Change the color is not an option.
      What Color for accesories should I Use???? What light bulbs are better?

      Reply
    33. Kathy

      October 07, 2017 at 1:59 pm

      On the example chart, what is the name /brand of the color with blue undertones.(the fifth square w writing on it)

      Reply

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