My Driveway got a MAKEOVER!

Are y’all ready to behold the best makeover a driveway could ever receive?

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Okay so maybe this wasn’t exactly the type of makeover you were expecting ;) But the new van did improve how our home and driveway look! And we did do some improvements such as painting the garage doors, adding a new light, adding house numbers, and cleaning the oil stain on the cement. Either way, it is a HUGE improvement.

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Yes, we got a “used-but-new-to-us” van!!! And honestly, I was not planning on posting about it here at all. BUT……. when our old van died,  I reached out to you on facebook a few months ago and asked for advice on shopping for a vehicle. You guys were amazing! I had so many comments and I seriously read through them with my husband and made notes. You guys helped so much.

So I wanted to show off my new-ish van and say thank you for your help. It was my first time car shopping for me and I was terrified. The last vehicle we bought a friend of a friend picked it up at an auction and so we didn’t see it until after we bought it. And the first car we bought as a married couple my husband just showed up with one night. Uhhhhh, yeah. And I am still married to him :P  I had been shopping with my older sisters before I got married and I didn’t have a good experience. I felt like I needed a shower after getting home.  I am sure you know what I mean.

The first couple of places we went were the big, huge dealers than mainly sell new. It was the exact experience I was expecting. Then we went to a smaller lot. They had a TON of Honda Odyssey vans. They had other things as well, but I couldn’t help but notice the plethora of the Hondas. Since that is what we were in the market for, I got a tiny bit excited. But I still put up my “you aren’t going to bully me in to something I don’t want” front and prepared myself. The place was called Forrest Motors and it is in Orem, Ut.

And guess what? I love them. Yep. I had such a FUN, good experience I kinda want to invite the owners, Forrest and Sammy,  over for a backyard BBQ. The experience I had there verses the other car lots was night and day people! Night and day! I could have chatted with them all night. I trust them completely. And I loved them so much I offered to have them as a sponsor. So Look over at my sidebar. Maybe even click over and say “hi”. ————————–>

Alrighty, back to the makeover of my driveway…..

Every year I change up my outside décor. One year I was feeling extra patriotic and did red, white, and blue. One year was all white, one year was blue. You get the idea. This year I went with yellow. Remember my side porch that got freshened up? The yellow plaque for the house numbers and yellow flowers tie into the lemon wreath and yellow flowers on the porch and the hello mat. I also have yellow flowers on the front porch which I just realized I have yet to show you.

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Our old van had an oil leak. We took it in a million times and had every thing replaced and it still leaked. It baffled two different mechanics. We gave up hope of ever having an oil free driveway. Once we sold the old van I scrubbed the driveway with Dawn dish soap and a little bit of water. I cleaned up the dirty suds with paper towels and then rinsed it off. I went through almost a whole thing of Dawn and 4 big rolls of paper towels! It looks pretty good now. You can still see where it was. I am thinking a round two may do the trick.

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I realized that I hosed off all the mud (mud pie making mess from my 3 year old) and then hurried and snapped pictures but never got a good shot of the cleaned up oil. It was by the little door so this is the best I have. We bought these plastic planters at Home Depot. They were originally black. I used plastic spray paint to paint them red.

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The old light on our garage never did work. And then one day it just fell. Kind of like its head hung in shame. The wood was rotted so we added a board and a new light.

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We got this light at Home Depot and it is the kind that automatically comes on when it starts to get dark. I think it is called a “dawn to dust” feature. It will act as a spotlight to our new house numbers! I cut the plaque out of plywood, painted it, and added vinyl numbers.

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We are happy with the new look of our driveway… and the van :) The only painful thing was that we have not had a car payment in almost 7 years. We have only had ONE car for 10 of our 13 years of marriage. So the decision to buy a car was HUGE for us. We took it very seriously. We took into account all of your advice. And we opted to go for a 2006 van with several miles on it so that our payment was low. Luckily we had just refinanced our house and our mortgage payment went down more than $200. So as much as I HATE going into debt, it will not affect us as far as the monthly payment. I am hoping when we have a good month we can pay more than the payment and pay it off quickly. My husband and I have NEVER had a credit card. We have never gone into debt for anything other than a few student loans and our house. But when you have little kids and you travel out of state to visit family, you need something that won’t keep dying on you. In fact, the last few times we went anywhere past an hour away, we had to rent a van because our mechanic said it wouldn’t last!

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But we couldn’t pass up the awesome deal we got at Forrest Motors and we feel so safe driving all over. AND it has air conditioning! Summer is going to be so much more enjoyable this year.

I wrote this post before My husband was laid off from work. I feel confident that since the last 3 times he was laid off we were able to maintain our mortgage payment that we will be fine this time too seeing as the van payment + the new lower mortgage payment = the old mortgage payment. I do not regret getting this new van. I have faith in our ability to be resourceful until Shane can get a new job.

The Grass Is Greener On The Other Side….. Or Is It???

Sometimes I am very introspective and get lost in my thoughts. I have been thinking about something and I felt inspired to share. After reading comments on several Facebook pages and other blogs about bloggers and their perfect lives, it started to make me think.

There are times I still find myself being envious of other people, other bloggers especially. I see the vacations they get to take when we as a family have not been on one in years. I see their kids in super cute new clothes all the time when my 3 year old is wearing clothes that my 11 year old wore when he was little (and most of those were hand me down from cousins). I see their clean homes. Not just clean in pictures on their blog (because we all know that was staged for a photo shoot) but also clean in instagram shots. And I look at my messy house and sigh.

And then I thought, what if people think things like that when they read MY blog. I hope not. I try so hard to keep things real over here. I  sometimes feel like there isn’t a single thing y’all don’t know about me. Maybe I over share. But I do it so you know that I have struggles too. I have a budget. I have stress. I have messes. I have faults.

I was watering my grass tonight. And it made me think of that cliché saying “The grass is always greener on the other side.” Yes, it is cliché. But there is a reason that it caught on.

We have strict watering restrictions right now due to the drought conditions. I can only water on certain days and only during certain times. My grass is dying. It is patchy and just plain dead in some areas. I drive around my neighborhood and think “They HAVE to be cheating! How can their grass be so green?” But then I came inside and looked out the window. From that vantage point our grass looked so green. It was weird. Even though I KNEW it had patchy areas all over. And then I realized that my neighbors probably have patchy spots too, IF I WERE TO LOOK CLOSELY. That is the key. The perspective.

Those blogs that I read that seem perfect are written by people just like me. Behind that blog is a person with struggles, messes, stress, and faults. Not all bloggers are comfortable sharing every aspect of their lives. Some of them are super private. And after meeting a lot of bloggers in real life I can testify that this is true, first had. I have seen their lives UPCLOSE. I think if you knew what some of them were going through it would blow your mind. For some of them their blog is a retreat where they can share the good things in their life and the pretty things they create.

I guess the point of all my pondering, and for writing this post, is to say – do not compare. There are always going to be people that look like they have it all. That look like they have their crap together. And guess what? Some may be awfully close to having it all or having their crap together. Just like there are probably people in my town who actually have green grass!There will be people who are more talented, have more money, have closer families, or whatever. But if we dwell on that, then we can’t fully appreciate what we have.  We can’t appreciate the view of our green grass from the window if we are constantly either standing over our dry spots and complaining or looking out the window to our neighbor’s lawn and being envious.

I wrote this post and then the next day something happened that drove home the point even more….. 

My husband lost his job yesterday. His company has been struggling badly and in one last ditch effort to save the company they have let go most of the employees. Any hope we had of taking our kids to Disneyland in the fall are gone now. Whether I can finish the many projects I have started is up in the air. And anything else we were going to do in now in question. It will be hard to get on Facebook and see all the summer vacations posted.  But I am going to try to look at them with my new found perspective. I am going to be happy that they get to do those fun things and know that our time will come one day. And I will hope others will be equally happy for me when my day comes.

I hope you all know how much I appreciate you. I hope you know that every comment and every email is GOLD. I feel such a strong sense of community. Maybe that is why I am so comfortable sharing things with you. I wish we could have a big party and all get to meet each other in real life because I would hug the crap out of all of you.

I love you guys. You are amazing.

 

SILHOUETTE GIVEAWAY!!!!!

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THE WINNER IS THIS GIVEAWAY IS Angie Meers Lanigan!!!

YAY!!! I love when I get to have such fabulous giveaways! My Silhouette machine is one of my favorite tools. I find uses for it all the time. And I was SUPER excited that the promotion for this month was for the heat transfer because I LOVE it. And then my heat transfer stuff didn’t come in the mail so I have not been able to make anything to show off. But maybe it will show up soon and I can squeeze a project in this week.

Before we get to the giveaway I want to announce the promo details. To take advantage of the deal you must visit the right landing page. Please visit: www.silhouetteamerica.com/heat and use the code HOUSEWIFE at checkout.

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Is the printable heat transfer stuff new??? I have been living under a rock, I don’t know. But I think that is pretty freakin’ awesome!

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Alright, let’s get down to the giveaway, shall we?

Silhouette is giveaway one lucky winner a Silhouette Portrait machine!!!

Open to US residents only who are 18 years or older. Winner will be announce Monday June 10th. Winner has 24 hours to contact me or a new winner will be chosen. The winner will be chosen by random.org.

You can do one or all of the following entry options through Rafflecopter. Please let me know if you have any trouble with the Rafflecopter widget.

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Jump Start Your Summer {Win $500!}

I am super excited to tell you about this contest. And I am super jealous you guys get to enter. Who couldn’t use an extra $500? And with summer right around the corner I can think of a million ways to spend it :)

Homes.com is sponsoring the contest and all you have to do is fill out a short survey about your summer plans/wishes and BOOM! you are entered. Easy peasy.

You have until  midnight EST June 4th to enter.

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Good luck! I would LOVE it if it were one of my readers that won. Fingers crossed for you all!!!

Pretending to be teenagers again……

I don’t get all mushy often but even non-mushy people deserve to gush a little on their anniversary :)

I love this man. We have been married 13 years today. We are ridiculously happy but it has been hard most of the time. We married young (he was 24 and I was just shy of 21) and started our family only 18 months later. We have experienced 3 lay offs, deaths in our family, mistakes/forgiveness, a miscarriage, extended family drama, and have always struggled financially. But we also have experienced the birth of four amazing little boys, our first house, lots of quality time with family, and have supported each other in every endeavor.  We are rich in what matters most. We have the same goals. We are on the same parenting page. We are total nerds together. And we have so much FUN!

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For our anniversary this year we went out to eat and then stayed in a hotel in ”the city” (Salt Lake City).

The next day we went to City Creek for the first time since it opened this past winter. HOLY COW people! It is impressive. Stunning! I got to venture into Anthropologie for the first time. WAY better than shopping online.
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This display was one of my favorites. I wanted to take the whole thing home :)
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See, we are kind of nerdy.

I also got to see West Elm in person for the first time. My husband fell in love with several things there. If it were not for the fact that our tub has started leaking (the day before we left!) into the basement and rotting the wood, we may have bought something. Such is life!
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After City Creek we headed to the theme park LAGOON. We both have not been there since we were teenagers. They have added so much since then.

We got soaked on Rattle Snake Rapids…..
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We rode some rides that were my favorite as a kid. I must been getting old because now this just makes me dizzy and nauseous.

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We had a blast! We spent almost 8 hours there and were so completely exhausted. We acted like teenagers, but our bodies told us later that we are far from being kids :)

What fun things  have you guys done to celebrate your anniversary???

Silhouette Winner!!!

I just got home from SNAP (a blog conference) late Saturday night. I took a 5 hour nap after church to try to recover from all the fun and late nights chatting. And today I am trying to get caught up with emails and other stuff that piled up while I was gone.

I am hoping to get a few posts up on the blog this week. I have some things I am pretty excited about!

If you are not the winner of the Silhouette, you can take advantage of the sale they have right now. If you already have a Silhouette, they have their vinyl on sale too. Here is the info and the code you need to use at checkout. Make sure to go to this page (www.silhouetteamerica.com/april), or the deal will not show up.

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Thank you to all of you who entered. The winner of the fabulous Silhouette Portrait is………………………

Candy Covington!!!!

Spring into the Dream {FREE E-Book}

The snow has finally melted, my closets are in the middle of being cleaned out and organized, I just signed the boys up for spring sports, and I am slowly planting things in my garden!

I LOVE spring :)

After being cooped up all winter I am always ready to hit the ground running with all sorts of projects. But where to begin? What order? How?

Homes.com has come out with a FREE e-book with tips about cleaning and organizing your home.

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I thought not only was the information awesome but the graphics and pictures were great. Hey, I am a super visual person ;) So go download it right now. It’s free!

And Happy Spring :)

Winner of the Silhouette!

I love when I get the chance to give away a Silhouette because I enjoy mine so much. I only wish I could give you all one.

If you are not the lucky winner today, there is still the sweet deal going on. The promotion goes until March 8th. If you go to {this site} and use the code HOUSEWIFE at check out you can get these deals:

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And the winner is……………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………..

Lisa Wuich-Wenckus!!!

Congratulations Lisa! Please email me with your information so I can forward it to the Silhouette team :)

 

Silhouette Giveaway!!!

Wahoooooo! I get to giveaway a Silhouette Portrait machine! I love having a silhouette. I use mine ALL.THE.TIME. My main thing I use it for is DIY home decor items. But I also use it to make things for school, church, holiday decor, etc.

Here are some of the things I have shared on my blog:

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Starting at the top left…..

* I cut out a damask pattern with vinyl and used it as a stencil to paint a lampshade

* Vinyl lettering of the title of “our song” in our bedroom

* I cut out stencils and painted fabric to make pillows for my family room

* I used the Silhouette Sketch Pens and the machine drew this artwork

* I cut out paper for posters for a county fair themed birthday party

* I used Silhouette Fabric Ink and a stencil that I cut out to make this clock pillow

* Vinyl numbers on my command center

* Heat transfer onto fabric. I actually have made a lot of tee shirts :)

* “Mind your manners” sign for my dining room

* Garden sign lettering that my kids painted for their rainbow vegetable garden

* Glass etching with a vinyl stencil

* Holiday (temporary) wall vinyl

* Monogrammed front door with contact paper

* Vinyl Christmas ornaments

There is also a killer deal going on as well. You need to visit their site on the promo page and use the code HOUSEWIFE.

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Here are all the details:

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 Go to silhouetteamerica.com/march to find the deal :)

You must be 18 or older to enter and a resident of the US.  The winner will announced on March 4th.  The sale goes until March 8th.

Here is how you can enter! (if you have any trouble with rafflecopter please email me)

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Detours

Detours are interesting. Whether you are traveling through life or actually traveling on the road, sometimes we are told we have to take another path. Something has happened and the way we normally would travel has a road block, or is just not right for us at the time.

We traveled to Washington state this past weekend because my husband’s grandmother passed away. She was one of my favorite people in the whole wide world. And while I am sad she will no longer be a sassy, spunky presence in our life, I am happy she is finally reunited with her sweetheart after 15 years apart.

While we we headed to Washington there was an accident on the freeway involving a semi truck that was carrying hazardous material. The entire freeway closed down and all of us travelers were told to take another path. We knew this would add another hour and a half to an already 12 hour drive but decided to look at it as an adventure. We had no idea what lay ahead on the highway detour and the kids were excited.

It was a prettier drive :) And 3/4 of the way through our detour we came across the most darling little town called Prairie City, Oregon. We chatted with the super nice gas attendant for a good 20 minutes. He had been to our town before. The we decided to check out the antique stores that were  also on main street. Our kids each picked out a tiny little treasure and we chatted with the owner for a half an hour.

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We got back in the car and my kids exclaimed that this was the “best trip ever”. Normally we plug along and only stop for gas. With a 12 hour drive ahead of us, we don’t normally think we have time for anything else.  The charm of that little town that looks like it is from another time period drew us in. And it made the whole trip more enjoyable because we had taken a much needed break and tried something new.

If you have been reading my blog for awhile then you know my husband is in the architecture field and that the architecture world has been hit hard with the economy the way it has been. It is getting better, and he currently has a job, but he has been laid off 3 times in the last 3 years. I like to look at those as detours. We had to move off the path we were on and take a break.

Had he not been laid off he would have plugged along with his job and not taken many breaks or vacations because of trying to get ahead financially with bills and such. But the lay offs forced us to take a break. We were able to spend time together doing things we may not have done otherwise. They were detours that will make it take longer to pay off student loans and get ahead but they were worth it. My kids look back at those months when my husband was home as the “best time ever”.

Do you ever have detours in life or in traveling that have ended up being a blessing in disguise? I would love to hear your story. Leave a comment with your story :)

 

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